SUICIDE
Pain has become an almost indispensable part of human life. A lot of humanity are pained without a full idea or knowledge of what their source of pain is. It is a tool that operates mentally or physically given the situation. The mental pain is always the most difficult to deal with. It comes as a scar that almost cannot be healed. The many causes of mental pain include the crooked perception of life, the fear of failure, traumatic experiences and so on. The usual complaints that things are not going as intended and things you are sure are meant for you not moving according to your expectations. it has become a very clear fact that life is anything but balanced and more physical and mental effort must be employed by some to get things going while in the case of others little or no effort is required. in every facet of life, lines are being drawn. people find more ways of promoting their discrimination ; the rich and the poor, the attractive and unattractive, the brilliants and the dullards E.T.C. every now and then, humans always happen to find a way of bringing discords and discrimination against themselves and some percentage of people happen to fall under every negative aspect of manmade classification which gives birth to one of the major sources of man made pain.
most times, a persons source of mental pain is as a result of others` actions ranging from being bullied in schools, work space, community E.T.C.
most times, an individual tends to be in pains as a result of another persons actions .
before pain goes into depression, it must have been fueled by peoples lack of care for individuals involved that is why you should learn to listen because you don't know whose life you are saving. it has become some people's day job making fun of others' mistakes and making fun of their disability. an individual may come to you asking for help , but once he voices out his challenges, you take it as an opportunity to backstab and make a story worth pennies out of his misfortunes. you feign sad but deep down in your heart you are the happiest person alive. why? because the depth of human hate has gone so deep that most people cant seem to control their outburst of jealousy and happiness in others' peril. we have gone so low that even other animals who are supposed to be beneath us do not have that level of hatred for our kin as we do. without feelings of remorse or empathy, you take up a persons life issue and tell your egomaniac colleagues who are as mentally deranged as you are, plunging the individual into greater state of self hate and detest for himself. boom he slides into depression. now he does not care about the depth of his pains or anything all he wants is to feel peace and be free from it all.
depression is not a hole we easily come out of. At the point of depression. Joy is far from the individual, peace of mind is a myth to him/her. At that point , he delves deep into anything that will give him temporary peace of mind and can easily fall into addiction. Be it drugs, porn or anything that will chase him away from reality. it dawns on the person that the happiness he is chasing is nothing but an illusion. Then the idea of suicide is born. it begins with just the wish to die then it grows to the individual making attempts on their own life. Morality and religious beliefs might deter them at first but the suddenly drown in their own self hate and feel that some people are just born to suffer. Now, the individual is as good as gone to themselves.
the individual deletes themselves from life and their so called friends gather and show their depth of care and sympathy.
but what really led to this individuals suicide? it is the lack of self acceptance, self love, the feeling that life itself does not stop you from becoming you, the feeling of wanting to feel among, the feeling of jealousy, the feeling that I DONT HAVE HOPE.
Everyone has to accept that one fact that every human being is selfish and does not care.
love yourself and love those around you. it doesn't have to come to the rope.
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